How to File for Divorce After Mediation
Why Mediation Makes It Easier
Because mediation resolves all the terms of your divorce up front—property division, debts, alimony, custody, and child support—you can skip the high legal fees and drawn-out court battles. Once you and your spouse have signed a Marital Settlement Agreement (MSA), the hard part is behind you. All that remains is to file the necessary paperwork to receive your divorce decree from the court.
The filing options below are quick, cost-effective, and handled entirely by mail — you do not need to appear in court to receive your decree. Here are the most common options for requesting a divorce decree in Pennsylvania:
OPTION 1: Use a Mediation-Friendly Lawyer
Best for: Mediation participants already working with lawyers.
The filing party (Plaintiff) can ask their attorney to file all necessary paperwork. Most attorneys offer a reasonable flat fee for mediation participants. If you do not already have an attorney, your mediator can refer you to lawyers who are familiar with the mediation divorce process.
OPTION 2: File on Your Own (Pro Se)
Best for: Mediation participants without attorneys.
You have the option to finalize your divorce in Pennsylvania without hiring a lawyer. This is known as filing pro se. You will need to complete the required forms and file them with the court. Each county has its own process and forms, which you can find here: County Specific Forms
OPTION 3: Use an Online Divorce Service
Best for: Mediation participants without lawyers (pro se) who prefer to use an online service.
Online divorce platforms offer step-by-step guides and typically allow you to print the completed forms and file them with the court on your own, saving time, money, and minimizing confusion.
Keep in Mind:
- Your mediator will not file court documents for you, but you can request a divorce decree using the options above.
- If confidentiality is important, you are not required to file your MSA with the court – it remains legally binding and enforceable.
- Pennsylvania law requires a 90-day waiting period from the date the divorce complaint is served before both parties can sign consent forms for a no-fault divorce.
- If you plan to resume a prior or maiden name, file the request with the court before the divorce is finalized: NAME CHANGE REQUEST
A Final Word
If a dispute arises in the future, remember that you can always return to mediation. Many mediation participants find that a brief session helps resolve issues quickly and respectfully, without going back to court.
Choosing mediation was a meaningful step towards your next chapter. Take confidence in knowing that you prioritized a peaceful, respectful process and took intentional steps to protect your family from the stress and conflict of a courtroom battle. I wish you both the very best!
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